What to Do to Make a Girl Like You

A girl will automatically like you when you trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you.

A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to get a girl to like them as a friend, but he really wants to have sex with her and have her as his girlfriend.

So, if you want this girl to have sexual, romantic feelings for you, the first thing you need to do is make her feel attracted and aroused when you interact with her.

When you make a girl feel attracted and aroused by the way you are interacting with her, she will automatically like you and be interested in being more than just a friend to you.

To make her feel attracted, you simply need to display some of the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that girls find attractive in guys.ou don’t have to be perfect. You just have to display some of the attractive traits and then believe in yourself enough to make a move.

What are some examples of attractive traits? You can:

• Be confident around her and other people.
• Be charismatic by allowing your true personality to come through, rather than putting on an act (e.g. acting nicer than you really are).
• Make her feel girly and feminine in contrast to your masculine vibe.
• Make her laugh and giggle when she talks to you.
• Use flirting to add a sexual vibe to your conversations and interactions.

When you display attractive traits such as those, you don’t have to try hard to “make” a girl like you because it will happen naturally based on her attraction for you.

Many guys don’t know how to attract girls, so they waste time trying to convince a girl to like them.

You can immediately create a spark between you and a girl simply by triggering her feelings of attraction for you.

Understanding How a Girl’s Attraction For a Guy Really Works

Many guys are confused about what to do to make a girl like them, because they assume that girls feel attracted to guys for the same reasons that guys feel attracted to girls.

In other words, guys think that it’s all about looks.

While it is true that a girl can feel attracted to a guy’s looks, the majority of girls feel much more attraction to other things about guys (e.g. confidence, charisma, emotional masculinity, charm, humor, etc).

Yet, for most guys, the attraction they feel for girls is INSTANT and it doesn’t even matter if the girl isn’t very intelligent, interesting or even a very nice person.

Most guys will still be willing to have sex with her (and possibly even date her) solely based on how she looks.

For this reason, a lot of guys make the assumption that most girls make a decision about who to have sex with and be in a relationship with based on physical appearance.

Yet, for most women (not all), a man’s personality traits (e.g. his confidence, charm, masculinity, sense of humor) carry much more weight than looks when she is deciding if she wants to have sex with him or date him.

For example: A guy might really like a girl and really want to hook up with her, but since he comes across in a nervous, insecure and self-doubting way when he interacts with her, she rejects him because she feels turned off by his insecurities.

Rather than realize that it is his lack of confidence that is turning her off, he will usually just assume that he is being rejected because he isn’t good looking enough, rich enough or tall enough.

Looks Are Only Important to Some Girls

Some girls place a lot of importance on how a guy looks, but the majority of girls are much more open and flexible when it comes to what they will accept about a guy’s appearance.

This is why you will always see so many ordinary, plain and even ugly guys with a beautiful girlfriend or wife.

How did they get their girl to like them?

Simple: He made her feel attracted to him for reasons other than his looks (e.g. confidence, humor, charisma, charm, masculine vibe, etc).

Here’s the really interesting thing though…

If a guy isn’t very good looking and even has some negative features (e.g. a big nose, eyes too close together, too short, chubby, skinny), these odd features will actually become attractive and appealing to a girl when she is feeling a lot of attraction for him.

Rather than look at his flaw as a bad thing, she begins to see it as a cute thing that only her guy has.

She will say, “I like that he’s chubby…it makes him cuddly” or “I don’t care that he is short, because he is confident and he makes me feel proud to be with him.”

So if you’re wondering what to do to make a girl like you because you think you’re not good looking enough for her; think again.

Rather than focusing on making a girl like you as a person, just focus on making her feel sexually attracted to you instead.

If a girl has been rejecting you or giving you the cold shoulder, you will immediately begin to see that her attitude towards changes without her even realizing that she doing it.

All of a sudden, you will seem attractive and appealing in her eyes and she will wonder how she could have ignored you all this time.

4 Mistakes to Avoid Making If You Want a Girl to Like You

A big part of getting a girl to like you is to know what to avoid doing that might turn her off.

Here are some classic mistakes to avoid…

1. Don’t pretend to be her friend if you want to be her boyfriend

A common mistake that guys make is to assume that the only way they can get the girl they like is to be nice and friendly to her.

A guy like this hopes that by being a good friend to her, listening to all her problems, gossiping with her on the phone or via text and generally being there at her every beck and call, she will one day realize that she likes him and wants to be his girlfriend.

Yet, what he usually doesn’t realize is this: A girl liking a guy as a friend is not the same as her feeling sexually attracted to him and wanting to be his girlfriend.

If you want to get a girl to like you in a sexual and romantic way, you have to focus on sparking her feelings of sexual attraction rather than her feelings of friendship.

For example: Make her feel girly and feminine in comparison to your masculinity (i.e. how you think, feel, behave, talk, move) when you interact with her.

If you don’t trigger her feelings of sexual attraction, she might like you as a friend and enjoy hanging around you, but she’s not going to want anything more than that.

When another guy comes along who can spark her feelings of sexual attraction, she will be going out on dates and having sex with him, while she calls you on the phone to tell you all about it because you’re such a good friend to her and she can always count on you to gossip and discuss love and relationships with her