When you begin to date a friend, the relationship may immediately become a whirlwind romance where you both spend loads of time with each other and fall madly in love.
You may immediately begin to announce your relationship to friends, talk about moving in together, go on holidays and even discuss the possibility of marriage.
Yet, that isn’t going to happen in all friendships that transition to a sexual relationship.
Sometimes, a woman will want to keep it secret for a while (e.g. if you work together, have mutual friends, etc) to see if she has enough feelings for you to actually get into a serious, committed relationship.
So, after you get to kissing and sex, just let her know that you and her don’t have to rush to decide what to do next.
Let her know that you are happy to allow it to unfold at its own pace and see what happens, but do reassure her that you like her, find her incredibly sexy and will still respect her and treat her well whatever happens between you.
When she hears that, the ball will be in her court and if she does have feelings for you, she will either begin acting like a girlfriend (e.g. calling you all the time, wanting to have sex with you, getting jealous about other women, etc) and may even straight out ask if you want a serious relationship with her.
If she does ask for a serious relationship, let her know that you do like her and are happy to see where it goes.
Let her know that both of you will know whether or not the relationship should get serious and she should just follow her heart and let that guide her to what she wants with you.
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