Trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you

One of the most important parts of understanding how to date a friend, is to get clear on the fact that you need to trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction in you before a sexual relationship will begin.

If you are good friends with this woman and you get along well, it doesn’t automatically mean that she will want to have sex with you, because a woman’s attraction for a man works differently than a man’s attraction for a woman.

For example: If a woman is physically attractive, most men will be willing to have sex with her instantly, simply based on how she looks.

Most men won’t even care what her personality is like or if there will be a possibility for a relationship after sex and will simply be interested in having sex with her based on how much attraction they feel for her physical appearance.

This is why men have always masturbated to porn and visual images of women, because a man’s attraction for a woman is instant and is mostly based on her looks.

Although a woman can feel attraction for a man’s physical appearance, it’s almost always not enough for a woman to be willing to have sex with a guy.

Most women are more attracted a man’s personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities (e.g. confidence, charisma, masculine vibe that makes her feel feminine and girly in comparison, ability to make her laugh, etc) than his looks.

This is why most women have to first interact with a guy to be able to feel the type of attraction they need to be willing to have sex.

So, if you want to start dating this friend that you like, you need to make sure that you are actively triggering her feelings of sexual attraction for you, rather that it only being about you feeling attracted to her and her feeling like a friend around you.

If she only feels like a friend around you because you’re not really saying or doing anything to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction, then she will most-likely reject you when you try to kiss her, ask her out or start dating her.

Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man works and how you can use it to make your friend want more than just a friendship with you…

As you will discover from the video above, your friend can begin to have “feelings” for you if you simply start creating feelings of attraction inside of her.

That isn’t going to happen if you just act like an innocent friend around her. You have to focus on saying and doing the types of things that will make her feel attracted and aroused by you.

If you’re not willing to do that, she will usually just continue to look at you as a friend and will remain open to meeting other guys who actually make her feel attracted.